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The first and only blog that tells you everything about menstruation

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Secrets and wonders of menstruation

It's amazing how little information there in the world about the most natural process of the female body.
Menstruation is the ultimate taboo in our society. I created this blog so that you free yourself and feel that here's a place where informed and feel free to talk about your body, your sorrows, your fears and your femininity. And so you know that nothing happened to you and you PASA is strange, because all of us strange things have happened to us about women's day, and sharing our stories is the best therapy for you to know that you are not alone with this tema.Este blog is the result of long research and interviewing more than a thousand women from all countries that have told me their fortunes around menstruation. Thanks to all of them and their generosity, we can now share their experiences and feel all more human, more close to each other ... and more women.

The idea of \u200b\u200bthis blog is that you end up reading it from end to end, and that your friends will read your period, you can feel part of you, something normal and not an invasion strange, and learn to love it because it means your body works perfectly.

The intent of this blog is to understand what is menstruation, why does one live with such shame and discover that there is nothing wrong and a lot of good.
It is time to end once and for all female shame about the physiological process more human and natural existence.


would be great to spend on other things you spend the effort to pretend does not exist, you do not feel you should hide it and not call him "stomach" pain if the uterus (not ovaries, as some say)
You are entitled to feel pain a tomarte un descanso, a que te mimen y atiendan , a llorar a los gritos y a comerte todo el chocolate del mundo SÓLO PORQUE TE VINO LA MENSTRUACION. Que no te quiten ninguno de estos derechos que te corresponden por ser mujer.



Y para gozar de estos derechos, no ocultes que te vino la menstruación... ¡ Anúncialo a quienes te rodean, para que te den un dia de paz!
¡No niegues tu menstruación , vívela a pleno!
Es el momento más mágico del mes... y no dura para siempre.

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Why talk about an issue so rugged?

¿Por qué la vivimos como algo terrible?

Before getting to write this book, I had many ideas for self-help books with humor, for the woman who wants to marry, be thin, millions, travel the world and be happy, which (oddly enough) not is so difficult to achieve ...
Until one day he came home to visit a little girl eight years old he found in my bathroom a box of tampons and asked for it was. I looked at her mother for permission to respond and answered:
- is for the period ... You know what that is?
- No ... and I do not care! - Said angrily, and ran away.
With my friend looked at frost. Eight years and already terrified with the theme! We called and asked:
- Tell me ..., why do not want anything to do with it?.
- Because I do not like! - Cried, dazed
- And why you do not like, if you know what it is?
- Because you do not like! - Told the mother, pointing a finger accusingly. And ran away again.
In short, the little girl had never menstruated, knew not what was the period ... and hated it. Did not even want to hear about it.
Then I was thinking that rather than write books explaining how understand men and how to live in love, that's putting the cart before the horse. The truth is that before anyone think of love, you love yourself. And women have serious problems with this from a little girl querernos.Y if you mosletaa both the thought of having your period, which is the essence of being a woman ... I think the story sums up the whole situation of women, which is the chicken and egg. Menstruation is shameful and taboo because we do not like. And we do not like because it is shameful and taboo. Finding the point of this ball head I've gotten into this mess to find out why so much secrecy for a little monthly menstrual blood.
Why the subject of menstruation continues to be embarrassing even in modern societies?
Why women avoid talking about the rule and hide it carefully, as if it were a terrible shame? Why
mothers fail to remove bias in this event when it happens to their daughters and they continue to transmit the same prejudices of the grandmother? Why
teens of this century avant-garde and cibernésticas girls with piercings and tattoos, "carefully avoided the issue by using euphemisms or mention stupid?.
Why feminine wipes the ads do not mention the word "menstruation" and warnings shown in the power absorption televisisvos Compress using blue ink? Why
with my closest friends told us how we live, and as has been our menarche, and every time I try to talk about it, change the subject? Why
half of humanity - women are 51% of the earthlings, live menstruation with more guilt than if he had assaulted a bank?
Seeking answers to these questions I wrote this book. I confess I would rather have a book to my 13 years, if not understood anything about it. He also wished that there was this book when my daughter first had to feel less alone in the trance.
But better late than never and so I wrote, because there are no books on the subject -. And often the authors write the books that we would have liked to read and not find it anywhere.

The diet of the iguana

A summer day was the kitchen of a house full of teenage girls.
- Why not go to the pool, it's hot? - I said
- She can not because her stomach hurts, "he said one of the friends of my daughter.
When I went to look for an antacid told me it hurt a lot more down. He said "it hurts my ovaries, but the ovaries do not hurt, what hurts is the uterus.
And he said he would not get into the water because the water would cut off period. I said no cutting, and to wear a tampon to get into the calm water. He told me he would use a tampon or crazy, and that his mother also used it. I stopped insisting, until another girl came asking for towels, and just out of the water.
- Why it does not enter the water? - Asked to see your friend very dressed.
- Because I am unwell, "said the friend
- Do as I do, I'm ill and I get into the water without cotton or anything because the water cut me!

I froze. We were three women, three different menstrual theories. How nice teenagers have scrambling twentieth century this subject! Why
much mess?
Because menstruation is an international secret. no one should know how it comes, as you live or you have it. And when you do a silent cospiración a daily topic, absolutramente happens to all women of mudno, it is obvious that we assemble myths, legends, rituals absurdities and follies invemntos around the lake very simple, just because no one shares the who knows the subject.
I give an example: suppose you are given an iguana and no one tells you how you should feed it. The iguana should eat every day to stay alive, and everyone knows it's normal mudno a coma iguana. But as talk of feeding the iguana is taboo, no one tells anyone what she's fed, and how to give, each one must feed in private, do not talk about it and no one should leave traces of what fed him. If this custom is maintained over time, until the words "iguana" and "food" are embarrassing, private and taboo - not only no one will have the slightest idea how to feed an iguana, but the poison would die iguianas up extinction.
Look how easy it would have solved everything if everyone had consulted with experts from iguanas to see what that iguanas prefer to eat, and what is their diet. But at this point the word "Iguana" is rude, and there would be experts in iguanas to avoid embarrassing his family with his profession. Iguanans owners do not share experiences with each other, I would not be right to talk about iguanas undernourished. You do not have a clue, but do not want to appear ignorant either. So shame, pride or misinformation, iguanas weaken and die. If you want to talk about it would say "go, no taboo on this, everyone knows that iguanas eat, and there is nothing special mudno have to feed them ... just not talk about the ETMA because it is a matter of conversation to talk at lunch. " And if you ask: "Do you like food your iguana? ". You say, "Well ... since no one ever spoke of the topic, I give the leftover skins and seeds, as I saw my mother did with her iguana ... Can we change the subject?" ...
happens that we are in a world which is easier to talk about the diet of the iguana that of menstruation. I set the example because it seems exotic, complicated, they know a few ... when erelaidada is a daily, very simple, which is resolved only by asking, "Mom, what do I do?". The universal problem is that Mom does not respond, because you're talking about iguana ... sorry, of menstruation. And she did not wants to talk about it, because Sinet uncomfortable, as he felt all his life, from the Ochoco years old or younger, at the slightest allusion to something that bothered her mother, grandmother and her tataratataraabuela.
Seeing that we are all immersed in myths and lies, secrets and mysteries, I began to ask point-blank women from different countries how they felt them before menstruation, as they lived, what they used female guards. I was amazed to see that in all cases it was clear that adult women do not know how to deal with menstruation and menarche were all traumatic and embarrassing.
Some confessed to never be encouraged to use a buffer used other birth control pills to prevent bleeding in a day at the beach and others had come to get cubes smell in the vagina to delay the arrival dela menstruation in the weekend.
There are homes where the women must hide swabs and tampons - as a terrorist hide their sticks of dynamite and trotyl breads - so that no one knew that they had "come."
The craziest thing is that everyone knows that women menstruate. But they are required to dismularlo all his life, so that no one suppose that never menstruate. Indeed prefer that others think they are sterile before they get us suppose that is in "these days."
Menstruation is something as natural as breathing, but I still believe that there is something pathological to hide fervently.
But why do not we love our period?

Why the hate?

We hate because it is a hassle and an inconvenience.
spots you, it hurts, you enter the cotton clothing, you should check all the time until it will hold the pad before cambiartela other, you wake up with stained sheets, changes your mood, gives you oral anxiety and want comoer all day, you change the plans plans beach for film ...
Only a woman knows what it's like in a business meeting that stretches too tmpón feeling that he is thorough, and do not know whether to get up from your chair flirty yellow color leave a memory crimson ...
Only a woman knows what she is having a bad day at work, your husband does not do what you ask and that your children will not heed you, and that is to come up and you feel you explode at any moment because they no longer support even more outrage ...
Only a woman knows she can be on your period number 300 and still do not know how to spend the toilet or bidet water without leaving a trail of blood on the road, you should clean with three toilet paper reviewed, first dry, then wet ...
Only a woman knows what it means to have to fish with hand towel, pad, or cotton fallen into the toilet or water, often in the same own urine, so that the cotton from clogging the pipe.
Only a woman knows what she is feeling tremendous desire to make love in the middle period, and prefer not to do so because I am too lazy to find the papers to clean bath towel and then if there are spills ... and then you feel anxious and tense because not having my wishes.
Only a woman knows what to leave home the first day of menstruation to give classes to 40 adoslecentes rebels who did not want to hear, or go on tour to give talks in front of an eager audience of 400, or up to receive an award gala dressed and with impeccable hair, mauillaje and smile, thanking everyone in front of cameras and microphones, when your head is not there, the legs will weigh like lead, you squeeze the belly pain and Uncia what you want is to be in your bed, your co oldest and warm pajamas, wrapped in blankets, sleeping until you go.
Only a woman knows who is to be bleeding for a month without stopping, either because of endometriosis, a change of IUD or a hormonal disorder, and the m ismso time out with your boyfriend, going to the theater, get your in-laws at home or play football with your children pretend that nothing happens.
Menstruation is definitely uncomfortable.
forces you to move from here orfor than carrying all the trappings of wipes, tampons, cotton, ibuprofen, antispasmodics, sedatives, and aspirin, from here to there, because you never know when you come, or how hard you or if you come with abdominal pain, or headaches, or insomnia. And to make matters worse, women stores are absorbing things will not fit that look, so you hide.
Sometimes it makes you feel worse than the flu, but as you can go to work warning "I'm with influenza" to take pity on you, you can not enter each month to work saying "I am menstruating" without sounding whiny, strange or bizarre.
Menstruation forces you to stop at each toilet, toilet and stop at every stop too long twice in each bathroom. And I passed by circumstances which should explain and do not want, because it is not accepted anywhere to menstruation as an excuse for delays, omissions or reduced performance. Menstruation arrives
ailments are not serious enough to call a doctor, nor so mild as to be ignored. A 24-hour headache that goes with aspirin is something that would leave any man in bed ... however, women continue working, pretending that "here nothing happens. " And noi We ask the medical or employment liciencia, menstruation, although we start from pain.
Menstruation is not irrelevant nonsense.
It is a little something of nothing, that we spend a couple of days and forget.
The monthly menstruation is a revolution in the life of a woman.
About three days a month, everything changes and we see our life upside down. We are not the same, and do not see things eye to eye as always.
And what's more important: the period is always unpredictable. Each month of our lives, we know that will come, but we never have any certainty of when. And even the most regular woman in the world, more you know it is always a new moon, or every 28 days just can not bet on what time you will not lose much money arriegarse.
is an ingenious mechanism, clean and pure, and mourn or sneeze, but gets a bad press because it is absolutely and totally wild rebel, it happens when you want. And that is not well seen in our organized society, where if you get lost the award 8:05 punctuality, and if you get to the parking lot with 10 minutes of delay must pay an extra hour. A menstruation does not care about minutes, or what happens outside. Buedo organize an expedition to the Himalayas, plan to swim or dance naked, getting married tomorrow ... and she'll be like when you want.
You can speed up the intestines, digestion and even the beating of your heart. You can reduce the progress of your brain, your beats and your lungs. But you can not change the rhythm of your period. Demorarala can not, or speed. Your uterus is the only human organ that actually does what he wants.
women being the masters of the organ more anarchic, crazy, independent nature, it is noteworthy that live as submitted.
Is it just because she knows so unruly at its very heart? There was always
more lions in the circus than cows, because there is no attempt to tame but indomitable. Menstruating


not forever

Putting together all the periods one by one, each woman spends ten years of his life menstruating. And I do not think any woman just ruined ten years of his life feeling bad because your body works like a charm.
wrote this book to discover why women live menstruation in disgust and guilt, when something sucks and not worth much less, deserves blame.
I wanted to know why the girls feel about their bodies as well as their great-grandmothers felt, and why female sexuality is like living in the Middle Ages, or worse, because everything is moving in the world but our idea about female sexuality.
The word "menstruation" has a very noticeable repulsive charge.
While writing this book, my friends asked me "Are you still writing about ... that?", When they were called "it" to my previous topics.
feminine wipes containers do not print the word menstruation in their packaging. Men do not talk about it. And women prefer to appeal to any understatement ("I came," I'm in those days, 'I am unwell "etc) before saying" period ", a word whose root meaning is ... the moon! What's happening
centuries that puts us all and all against a female as routine process?
I began to investigate why there is so much negative emotional about something so natural. It was not easy to discover, as well as menstruation is not spoken, menstruation the estudia.Pero not think I've solved part of the dilemma. This book tells you why for centuries to the period it looks so suspicious. This book is the best pain reliever for those days when everything hurts. You see why we should not fear the rule and why you have to enjoy ..
you going to let you go ten years in mourning and pain, may make this decade a decade of discovery, joy, pride and pleasure?
know I take the negative charge is not something you solve in the overnight. Therefore, these pages tell you why, for centuries women have gotten us into his head that menstruation is bad. And you end phobic about your body, because one is afraid of what is not known.
have the luck to be born woman, who is a little chance. This is a unique experience that men admire from the past, and therefore the same insult and contempt, of pure envy.
If you happen to be women not waste it. Enjoy it fully. Menstruation does not look that lasts a lifetime. Take advantage of it, which soon ends.

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A MI NI ME THE NAMES!

comes a time when silence is betrayal "the speech of Martin Luther King at Riverside Church, New York April 4, 1967

" every twenty-eight days I feel, sky down, legs in, so occupied, that being so busy and I feel so again and it is, however, the one I frequented, which dictates my steps in order to feel, led by my will more urgent, more needed, more desperately grasping at the tenderness, inviting me to be the one that has me increasingly ambush on alert ever, leaving red alert, intense, a trail of detached material on what I feel inhabited siendo.Tan do not know if I speak from within the blood in a tumult, and who watches the other, or that other me "
Chantal Maillard. "Philosophy in the critical days."

"" Menstruation "is a bad word?

How much of her life a woman is menstruating?
Assuming you start at 12 and you go at 60, going to menstruate 13 times a year for 50 years, about 650 times in all, if you have no children. If you have, you have to take about 12 or 15 periods, depending that breastfeeding a baby in which case you again mensruación month or two months to stop breastfeeding.
If we put all periods of a woman from menarche to menopause non-stop menstruating healthy women for ten years of his life, depending on the number of children tenga.Eso means the period covering almost a fifth of our lives reproductive. And that means that every time you come bothering you, you are ruining your life fifth reproductova and ten full years of your life.
As its name implies, the rule is a rule rather than exception. So why live like a rarity or dysfunction when it is not?
is a physiological process natural, the process makes you more reliably woman.
However, most women experience it as a punishment.
Why? Even in the Bible God punishes menstruating women: the biblical punishment was to give birth to children with pain, no pain menstruating. And then? Why so much taboo for a little blood?
Some people have told me "is no longer so taboo, you can now talk about" Oh, yeah? Where? The menses do not appear in books or magazines that do not address female ailments. The actors in any film ever menstruating. Nor is spoken of in everyday life, even between mother and daughter, between sisters, between friends or between colegas.Si is spoken, it is in low voice. It is an absolutely forbidden to speak to men.
This is done as if it were not menstruating. The teenagers do not share experiences or opinions about menstruation and among themselves and for that reason are still dragging fears, superstitions and ancient myths, as being best not to bathe with menstruation should not wash your hair because "the water cut menstruation, menstruating women or cut the mayonnaise (such as pregnant myth goes against worthy of fertility). And, most important that we make clear is ... nobody knows which are the rule!.
To investigate this issue went to the library to see if something had already written about it. The employee was a young man, black shirt and earring in his ear. For a moment I thought back when women had a librarian. But I also refused to take me a prejudiced attitude to talk about a man, so I approached him. I would say the word ... but could not. I went to say "Do you have books about menstruation?". There were people behind me, and did not want to shock anyone. So I told
- Hello, I need material about female sexuality ...
- The sector of romance novels in the third panel, on your right.
- Los siento, me expresé mal: lo que preciso es investigar sobre salud femenina.
- Libros de medicina, al fondo a la izquierda- me dijo
- Quiero decir… Preciso saber si tienen algo de higiene femenina.
- Si le sirve, le traigo “La historia del jabón”. – dijo sin mirarme, buscando en un fichero.
- No: preciso algo que hable acerca de la regla.
- ¿Matemáticas?, quinto panel abajo…
- No hablo de matemáticas…hablo de las otras reglas, las femeninas….
- ¡Ah, reglas de convivencia! Libros de Educación, atrás a la izquierda.
- No, eso no. – dije suspirando - Estoy investigando sobre el período….
- Cretaceous, Triassic, Jurassic ...? Geology is ...
- No, that ... the other time ...
- Ah, is talking about physics! Is the period of the pendulum?
- No, the period of women.
- Sorry, the only one who spoke of the period of the pendulum was a man. And will bring "Foucault's Pendulum" by Umberto Eco
The poor lad and enter his head that someone asked something about menstruación.Decidí find in bookstores served by women. I said on that subject there is nothing more than "Vagina Monologues" by Eve Ensler, but do not, and what better get it on video. I then went to a video store, excited to see how he would Ensler to speak to her vagina. But her vagina did not speak, nor had sexual intimacies. The speaker was his mouth, not talking about menstruation. I went back to the video. It could be that there was nothing about menstruation! I looked for movies that take "blood" in the title. But they were all from terror or war. For example, I rented one that seemed to refer to menarche, called "First Blood" ("First Blood"). But it was an action and shooting with Sylvester Stallone. The title refers to the first blood that by finishing a duel, where the rule is that "first is the loser bleeds." In the battle of life, the first is the woman bleeds. Aha, rightly always lose!

In America there are many books about menstruation. Are encouraged to publish in English because it is a language that nobody entiende.Así that writing this book I had to hold long talks in private with women who broke the taboo to confess they had ever talked to their mothers or their best friends. I studied books on gynecology. I poked into the net with the perseverance of a pearl diver, I made a pole vault over ancient prejudices to find answers that throw light on a topic still too dark.
Finally, I think I know why menstruation remains a terrible and frightening, you have to hide. And I think we know why the fuss about this matter we are relieved and reconciles all the fact of being female. And even just feeling proud of what you embarrassed before.
Menstruation is a unique and fascinating physiological process, not lifelong and therefore it is to be enjoyed every day .... ever suffered.



why menstruation is taboo?

You know what the word "taboo"?
"Taboo" is a behavior activity or practice prohibited, sacred, sacred or respected by a social group determinado.Dice Sigmund Freud is somewhat disturbing, dangerous, forbidden and impure sacred awakening fear. [1]
"Taboo" is a word derived from the Polynesian tapu and means "very strong signal." But there are experts who say "tapu" in Polynesian means "period" .... Which is certainly a strong signal!
What is taboo is forbidden for so long that - although it is unclear why, is respected to the letter, when the ban has already lost the sense of being. For example, between Muslims and Jews is taboo eating pork. The reason is that they knew that pigs previously transmitted trichinosis. So even today, having access to healthy pigs in these groups of people its meat is considered unhealthy.
In our society, menstruation and menstrual blood is a taboo so strong that it prevents you from talking about it at all unless the English cultures, as was Carlos, Prince of Wales told him by telephone to her lover Camilla Parker Bowles' Let me be your tampon. "
taboos exist to control things considered powerful. The ability of women to bleed without injury, at a predictable rate, together with the cycles of the moon, combined with the ability to give life to a new child, have been considered magical abilities for centuries and from which the man began to see how drunk.
The women were adored, deified, and sent feared due to its unique ability to menstruate. And so they developed strong taboos to protect society awarded the incredible power of menstruation. Power is not short: if you are menstruating is that you can give life, what is that perhaps the greatest demonstration of power? As
primitive societies gave him magical powers to women, generations removed they are saying that menstrual blood is polluting, and that women should take good care where shooting its poisonous blood-stained cloth. That is why even women more informed and modern evolved their feminine wipes hastily wrapped in a thousand papers and then sink the big ball of paper in the bottom of the basket so that no one can see, not realizing that ditch using so much paper to cover HACN it even more evident. And not only do that in public restrooms: being at home, wrap their towels used in bags put inside other bags ... for anyone to know they have their periods!
If you ask them why they do not know how to explain it. They all say "Not that disgust me, you do not want to gross out the other", "to not impressed, "because it is unpleasant for others." the truth is that they hide their menses by irrational and atavistic impulse that forces them to hide what is happening and that is too old to be explained with lógico.Comentarlo reasoning is considered a folly, a folly, an animal, we can not be revealing the wildest part of our person! Imagine that in a society that tries to control every minute and put everything fixed schedule, women happens something that appears suddenly, without warning, and that absolutely no one can controlar.Una can decide when and when not sleeping , when you urinate and when not to, and even when vomiting and when no. But you can not decide when and when not menstruating. Menstruation is absolutely rebellious, low as they want and nothing stops her. How can a modern, sophisticated girl will have something scheduled on the agenda, as a natural cycle, wild and untamed, by the design of their hormones? It is a complete nonsense! This puts any woman in the same place a wild animal. If you want to dominate the world, how we can dominate our period? The test period is that indomitable nature, bordering on self-indulgence, that's why women are still embarrassed to buy tampons or providing wipes in a pharmacy. No one is afraid to ask higiénicoporque role is to control when bathroom and when not to ... but you have to be a woman to be the folly of menstruating anytime! How can we be so wild?
[1] "Totem and Taboo

antediluvian prejudices and impossible cures

For this feature wild menstruation, it remains a taboo primitive, superstitious and old .. Our grandmothers never knew they would have a period before it will come. The feminine pads and tampons are not promoted on television until 1970. Menstruation is the clearest indication that a girl and a woman is sexually mature. And this red flag to anyone nervous, right? Why not have the same taboo on the expression of a boy and a man? In fact, everyday speech is full of words that refer to male genitals, from the "idiot" to "bad blood" through the "asshole" and "you the milk." Be rude to talk like that, but by no means taboo. So it seems that the menstrual taboo is not so much sexual maturity but it is a topic of female sexual maturity.
History is written by the victors, and as did the men do not menstruate, they decided that menstruation is bad and ugly. So they invented the blood is a curse from God, that women bleed because they have too much blood, it bleeds because exercise less than men and that the blood draining from their uterus, which is the body weaker, the landfill body and even thought about wild theories as the uterus moves causing health problems in different parts of the body. Medical books of the 60's suggest that women should not bathe during menstruation, or it raises the blood to the head. " Books around 1970 say wash your hair "short menstruation." And the books published after 2000, which can not move further on the subject claim "If painful menstruation, is because women are being fed wrong" and suggested dieting inconseguibles naturist full of ingredients like acai Brazilian, Chinese herbs or teas dreadful English names such as St John's Wort, which means "the wart San Juan "... what woman in her right jucie would take that, when your body asks only for chocolate?
They say that if you take chocolate you get hurt, and that menstruation hurts you more if you are filled with candy ... just as the body only asks for candy!
I say that for the period will not hurt you only feed yourself with shakes bean sprouts, alfalfa and flaxseed to alleviate menstrual cramps. I once tried to take off the pain with flaxseed. Yes it takes away the cramps. It happens that instead of eating half a teaspoon, reluctantly swallowed half a cup of parakeets that disgusting food. Then I thought to die of pain I had cramps all night ... and I swear I'll hurt so much that you forget the intestines of any menstrual pain! There must be another solution! But there is not because menstruation is taboo
What experts say this taboo?
Some justify the aversion to menstruation with the fact that primitive man did not understand how someone can bleed for four days without being mortally wounded. Freud thought the man was that menstruation was taboo because it reminded him of his fear of castration. Karl Menninger felt that the fact that menstruation is taboo is because that man is too much anxiety to see sexuality and emotionality of women these days exalted. In his book, "Menstruation and Menopause" (published by Knopf) New York psychologist says Paula Weideger this taboo is the result of fear and envy of the male history towards women, and that the taboo was created to ensure that she wants to match him in social status and believes that the taboo "plays an essential role for the man and as such remains live and grow, not diminish one iota from what it was two thousand years ago "The taboo teaches women a striking self-loathing and hatred and perennials that make it impossible to seek a place of power in the world, competing with men because they feel less because of the dreaded menstruation.
So as is tradition Jewish mothers slapping their daughter's menarche (to mark a before and after in life, they say), most women receive psychological blows throughout the world, which insists on mark heat to be ashamed of involuntary physiological process that happens in their bodies and that they could not avoid even if wanted.
Here is the greatest perversion of the matter: it is make women feel guilty for something that happens ominously, just for being women. Imagine if they were told that men should be ashamed because they grow mustaches, self-esteem would have forever cut short and embarrassed conceal all items shaved couple ever one knew the beard and mustache are still growing just for being men .
So now we see that it is unfair to look so bad actually menstruating, and we'll see why it has such a bad press.

Why we can not say we're menstruating?

All over the world, women spend one week per month, every month of his life, doing everything possible to hide the fact that the days are female.
invent any excuse to go to the bathroom often, we see some. Excuse

vs invented. I prefer others to think

"I drank too much beer" - do not menstruate, is that I'm an alcoholic!
"It broke my underwear elastic"-not menstruate, I am so poor that I have no
"I got a bug in his pants", do not menstruate, I have bugs in my private parts
"I'm broken", not blood, is diarrhea.
"I feel good" - I'm not menstruating, I'm throwing
"I have to take medicine" I'm not menstruating, I enferema.
"I broke the zipper of her skirt" No menses, use torn clothes.
"I is to jump a button on the shirt" does not menstruate, I'm fat.
"I'll go wash my hands again," I have not menstruated only an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
"I have cystitis"-not menstruate, only I have a horrible infection.
"I have to take something" ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... No menses, I am addict
"I have to check my makeup," do not menstruate, I am insecure and neurotic
"I'm going to comb"-not menstruate, I'm vain

"I spotted the dress with blood"-not menstruate, I have hemorrhoids
"I have to accompany a friend to the bathroom" .... "I do not menses, she is menstruating.


Is not it amazing? Women prefer other people think before they believe anything they menstruate!
is that the taboo against the rule, that women today must carefully hide passing a quarter of his life carrying the secret kept menstruando.Deben bajo siete llaves, disimular sus toallitas, apósitos y tampones, cuidarlos con discreción, y no revelar su estado más que por razones de fuerza mayor.
¿Por qué?
La ginecóloga francesa Lucienne Lanson afirma que “en toda la esfera de la fisiología humana no ha existido otra función corporal objeto de tan apasionada oratoria, violentas discusiones y descabelladas teorías como nuestro flujo menstrual”. Me creo lo de las descabelladas teorías, aunque no lo de las discusiones, porque es un tema que jamás se debate. Se la celebra o se la niega, se la considera mágica o maligna, beneficiosa o temible,y nadie a permanecido indiferente a este extraño proceso…pero no se lo debate or discuss or investigate: it prefers silence.
In our culture only shows the impact-absorbing protective pads on television ads, but it is forbidden for someone to find out that we are using them. The society supports and encourages this shame. It is considered proper to be ashamed, feel like a burden, we would hope that never came and relieved when they come no more.
If a healthy woman 40 years menstruating happens in your life just to have about 500 periods in total. But it makes sense angry and ashamed of something that happens 500 times in life? Would not it be better reconciled with the process and live as a unique part of your feminine essence? What state is the woman in the world should be ashamed and hide a physiological process that invariably happens every 28 days? Is not it a highly debilitating, that of having to hide, hide, deny and conceal that something perfectly normal in our body? What's the macrobiotic dieting, Reiki, Tai Chi Chuan, Yoga, Pilates, meditation and various psychological therapies to be fine with it if we can not accept the natural process of our body? What about women in a society where if you come without warning and without cotton tampons heard you ask any woman you know to be discreet? It says it is possible that one of every seven women that surround us today are menstruating. Can one say which one is menstruating? And if there is no way of knowing what a woman is menstruating and what woman does not ... why is outlawed and disables a menstruating woman?

Reasons not to say you're menstruating

- it can stain your clothes
others - because everyone would panic that you eat all
chocolates - because people will imagine that by switching the towel and gives them something
- be depressed men because they thought you pregnant
today - because the bartender will take away the desire to make a Bloody Mary (Mary Bleeding!
- because men are excited when they know you are of childbearing age

Excuses Elegant and feminine napkins if you get caught peeping bag

"I discovered that this is great for cleaning the windshield of my car"
"The mojo in ice water, I applied it on my eyes and rest in sight"
"The cleaning took over where my cat peeing"
"They are the best to shine the boots"
"Clean the table with it if they spill drinks"
"I hit in the ears when it gets very cold, and do not know how to entertain"
"I use them in their ears to muffle the loud noises of the city"
" Bring a towel soaked in cold water hit me in the neck and do not know how you cool in hot weather "
" Only I take off my makeup over for "
" When I emptied the tank of my goldfish, he made three of these and you're "
" It is a joke to my friends: they are cast in the gin and tonic and when they want to realize, the glass is empty "
" The use to dry hands. Is smaller than a dry towel and more "
" I am not menstruating. I take them to pretend that I am menstruating if I have no desire for sex "
" The use of metal polish. Absorb more metal cleaners that are disposable cloth and "
" The I to pretend that I am still menstruating my 78 years ... they make me feel young! "

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WHY YOU SAY "be out of sorts?

" The discrepancies that are hidden in silence, burst through any other side "- Ernesto" Che "Guevara


That does not speak

we talk about homosexuality, lesbianism, pedophilia, rape, incest, drugs and abortions, but not menstruation, which is a natural process and everyday.
not even mentioned the word menstruation, which is even more taboo than the word vagina. We saw that is more politically correct to say that going to the bathroom because it is screwing to say that she is menstruating, menstruation is more taboo than shit.
not exaggerating: the word menstruation is unpronounceable. Try
. Looks up this book and try to ask who you have on hand "What do you think of menstruation?" Or " When did you get your period? "Without swallowing saliva or arm you value as if you were to skydive from a plane. You can not. Euphemisms and again will seek a less direct way of saying the word so terrible.
gynecologists do not talk about menstruation, asking "Do you have regular periods?". And only if you expect to be pregnant you are asked the date of the last menstrual period to be given with FUM, because they can not write the word "menstruation." Even
appliances designed for menstruation, such as feminine pads and tampons have the word menstruation in their containers, boxes, envelopes, or in their advertising. In ads on female tissues appear white models clad blonde pouring blue ink on the pads ... what happens? Does the public would be impressed if they show red ink?
modern girls and released, nor say "menstruation." At most, they say "alienated me," got sick "or" wine. "
And in all cultures around the world, all people invent convoluted complex sentences and expressions to refer to the menstrual cycle, provided that no word is impossible.


Why do you say "being unwell? I asked

the friends of my teenage daughters why they never say "menstruation." And they say: "We prefer to say" I am unwell, "because the word period is too long." He did not even realize that the phrase "I am unwell" has twice as many words and syllables twice that "menstruation." And not even realize what is meant by the word "unwilling" According to psychologist Eva Giberti "Being indisposed" is an expression that conceals the violence that accompanied, historically, our opposition as a person. [1] "Repeat no more than adapt to think aa of us as men think they are: sick for menstruating. "We were taught to say, from small, menstruating" we are unwilling. " Repetition in which repetitively evoke the image of a woman with disease, which is what everybody wants us to believe. Willing
is be ready to do anything. Instead
be unwell is not ready. But being with menstruation, "a list what is not? Being unwilling and the worst of the pain, women go out to work, attend to the family, and we continue our daily lives. We complain a little, take a painkiller, we are not ready to run a marathon (though any woman marathon runner continues to train even though she is menstruating), but we are ready for everything as usual, and some things we'll see.
Nor was not willing to sex, since many women are more erotic in the middle period in the rest of the month, many people prefer the extra lubrication of menstruation, and lots of couples who prefer to do so now to minimize the risks of pregnancy (caution: there the whole month). Apprehensions about
also depend on the degree of red color that each support see .. Of course there are people more or less susceptible to the blood. There People who see a drop and faint: terrible condition for any woman.
Or does it mean "I'm suffering from a malaise" that is to say "I'm sick," explained almost worse than before?
may be concerned that as something that only happens to women, is very convenient sullied, dirtied, poisoning and consider undesirable, harmful embarrassing and unpleasant.
whole process of menstruation is so complex that keeps us aware of what happens to us in our interior, whether physical or emotional symptoms. For us to be irregular, the onset of menstruation confirms that our body works as it should work.

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[1] www.evagiberti.com Women, disease and violence in medicinaPor Eva Giberti. Article published in the book "Women and violence invisible, and Ana Maria Eva Giberti Ferandez (ed.), Editorial Sudamericana, 1992, Buenos Aires, Argentina, 2nd ed. edition, ISBN: 959-07-0569-9, 227 p.



How do they call it elsewhere?

In all cultures, menstruation is unpronounceable word and invented a thousand ways to avoid it, perhaps pretending to pretend not to happen.
is remarkable that in all parts of the world all justified - as the friends of my daughter - saying that the correct word is too difficult or long. What they really mean is that what is difficult is to say it.
Not to say it, carefully avoiding references secret safe conduct sophisticated, very complex metaphors, jokes, puns elaboradísimos private and family as I am in those days, 'I have seen of Andrew, who comes once a month "or" notice today I can not swim. "
The Italians also say menstruazione is a difficult word to pronounce. Then I say" rain "," having the loop "," having seen the Marquis "(presumably comes from the" brand " can left) and "technical problems".
In Japan, the official word is clearer "gekkei", "Way of the Moon" signicant "menstruation." But no one uses because it is very strong and gynecology. Then he used the euphemism "seiri," which means "physiology." He also says "ichigo-chan" ("Miss Strawberry"), "okyakusama" ("to have visitation"), "ketchup" and "hi no maru ( 'Rising Sun'), which is the name of the Japanese flag: white with a red circle in the middle ... like a used napkin. .
in English prefer to say "menses," "I have my things," "I have my days of a woman" and "I have my flowers." Besides "period (" period "), he is called" the curse "(" the curse "), presumably by a malignant derivation from the Irish word" cúrsaí "which means" course "," circuit "or" cycle. " He also said "to have raw meat" and "offside", because students who are menstruating are exempt from participating in sports.
In Germany they say "I got Case "," I have my thing, "my stomach hurts," I'm in pain "," red wave surfing, "" I'm preparing something, "came the strawberry seller," came the red king " "I'm with my days, 'I have my history", "pay the blood tax" or "I got the pig." Would not it be easier to say menstruation? Apparently not.
In India it is said that a menstruating woman "can not" "not well" or "not home", which leads to many misunderstandings when the children say "but if you're in the kitchen!"
In Greece we say "I have my rags".
In Denmark, Croatia and Japan they say "the thing."
in Bolivia will say "the baton"
In the Czech Republic, Finland, France and Denmark is called "strawberry season." In Denmark we say also "male frustration", in France the "rule" and in Finland is also called "evil" mad cow "and Känkkäränkkäpäivä, or" day problematic. "
In the Netherlands, a country full of dykes, they say, "broke reservoir "In France we say" the time of the moon. " In New Zealand they say "strawberry jam day" and the poetic "red sailboats at sunset." In Sweden "I have it," that time of month "and even" red flower of shame. "
In Portugal we say "Benfica are playing at home" in England they say "play Liverpool or Manchester United Play" means all soccer teams in red shirts.
Russian Pilots call it "tecku" which is the drip, and even the sarcastic "godoviye" which means "year" as an expression Wish that I hope happens once a year.
In Zambia it is called "Moon" in South Africa "hammock season."
Many sites bluntly said "I killed a baby" - because menstruation clearly indicates that there was no pregnancy. [1]
It is curious that many sites menstruation refers to "visit" as the unexpected arrival of something that joins us for a few days. Iran says "we have visitors from India", in England and the U.S. say "Aunt Flo came to visit" (pronounced like Flo flow = flow) or "Aunt Mary arrived" and in Latin America "Came Andrew, who comes once a month," came the godmother ", and in Peru," Mr. Rojas came "..
This fact of having "hits" every month, is a nuisance, something that changes the climate. For men, every day of the month is identical to the previous. In their bodies does not happen much. As the orgasm as different and varied. In the body of women, by contrast, occur at least nine trials that a man can never experience: menstruation, penetration, pregnancy, breastfeeding, childbirth, lesbian practices, menopause, autoeroticism through breasts and female orgasm estimated four times stronger than the male and the nerve endings of the clitoris (8,000) are just the penis (2000). These are things that a man is deprived of life and that's why they are intrigued by those things that makes a woman and he did not, earning him the woman ascribe mysterious processes. Of all these processes, being pregnant is the most magical. The pregnant woman is two persons at a time. And never feel lonely, feel a life inside. It is suggestive that, in this respect, the fact of menstruation is called in many places "have visitors." menstruating women feel accompanied by the potential possibility of having a child, if not this time, maybe next.
We see that the words that define the menstruation have to do with invasions, enemies, annoying visits, stains, death, madness and problems. Connotations are not positive and uplifting take pride to any girl. So strawberry Temprado banal poetic creative process with something as simple as a strawberry trailing.
People prefer to say anything before the word menstruation.
"I came," says one woman to another. And the other understands, without a word.
Something that should be announced to the four winds, because one is no longer the same person when she is menstruating, does not advertise. All the streets, hide, hide it, they covered with shame which transcends all analysis and logic. Almost
almost, the best we could be saying in any language is "I am with my euphemism."
One of the more scientific words to designate the period - "catamenia" or "what comes below" - hardly used anywhere in the world. Rather, the only one who wears a dark group of Finnish black metal music called Catamenia founded in 1995: Vikings tattooed males dressed in black leather make more noise than any woman in the middle of premenstrual syndrome.

[1] http://www.mum.org/ (Museum of Menstruation)

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IS THERE PMS? PERSONAL STORIES

"Women complain about premenstrual while I feel it is the only time of month I can be myself." Roseanne Barr


Do we become mad with menstruation?

Almost all the women we are different a few days before we have a menstrual period. This is a fact: the vast majority are new sensations and symptoms that can always be the same or to vary from month to month.
In general, many physicians such as encyclopedias and the Internet tend to label these feelings as negative symptoms when these symptoms piuede surprised, but not be negative ... who does not like surprises? A cobrades loos, of course.
Many of this change is strongly positive. But the doctors want us to believe we're sick, then the U.S. Mayo Clinic described on its website at Premenstrual Syndrome as a phase with symptoms such as swollen abdomen, pain in breasts, depression seizures with tears, irritable, certain food cravings, insomnia, muscle or joint pain, headaches or fatigue. [1]
In 1914 Leta Stetter Hollingworth hundred women gave a battery of tests to be carried out over several months to discover whether they actually yielding less at work during menstruation or had symptoms consistent with a work, and the results gave results that could be categorized into reliable conclusions. Each woman reacts differently and felt differently, whether they had a period or not. All subsequent studies resulted in resounding failures. Thus concluded that premenstrual syndrome is a condition invented false.
The first to talk about Dr Frank was a City of Chicago who coined the term premenstrual syndrome, stating that this disease affects 40 to 60% of women. Back pain, lethargy, exhaustion, insomnia, nausea, dizziness, depression, rage attacks, mood swings, bloating and breasts, mood swings, physical deterioration, gastrointestinal disorders., Cravings ... all this is part of the syndrome. Clear that Dr Frank forgot that anyone (male or female) feel any of these symptoms throughout the month, which could be talking also of "premenstrual syndrome male" ... or is it that a man who is for you to respond with grunts menstruating, when is growling to stop yelling, that six-hour nap and then peanut binge beer and then complain of swelling? And what cuanod next day you ask "What happened yesterday ta, who was s angry?" I answer "I do not know"?
The one who then instructed to popularize the "bad women" was a British physician named Katharina Dalton, who wrote thousands articles on his findings about women committing more crimes and suicides together before menstruation and five million were lost dollars annually due to absenteeism menstrual. He said that 45% of 276 psychiatric patients entered interned during menstruation. And scores of students fell during their menstrual periods. He wrote a book called "premenstrual syndrome" that husbands give to their wives saying, "You see I was right to say that the period you crazy?"
Depression, sadness, irritability, crying, sore breasts and abdomen, headaches, tiredness, poor concentration, amnesia, dizziness, insomnia, anxiety, edema, swelling, pain, diarrhea and general unease ... are some of the 150 symptoms that are attributed to the impending arrival of menstruation. This makes you ask the author Carol Tarvis "By God, with so many symptoms that cover almost every experienced man, who does not suffer from premenstrual syndrome?" The same author makes an interesting survey in his book "The devaluation of women" (Planeta 1992 ) on the number of items were made on the period from 1964 to 1989, and concludes with interesting observation was discussed a lot more of premenstrual syndrome in the 70's, when women made their first inroads into the paid labor market without that this situation was caused by a major war. This means that in each historical period in which participation of women in the labor market is considered a threat, we talk about menstruation as if it were a debilitating disease. Similarly, Janice Delaney said in his book "The Curse: A Cultural History of Menstruation" (1976) who has invented this disease called Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) when it has never been scientifically proven its existence, and has managed only what that the company wanted at that time was to make adoselescentes confident, bold, shameless and courageous ... in adult fearful, ashamed, sick and discouraged , let him step to the men in the labor market, they prefer to stay home to care children ... but Who cares? "Do not worry, dear: You keep quiet at home than the money I win."

1] http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=Menstruation

Image: Vagina Queen on horseback from the Viking mythology. Is premenstrual dysphoric disorder?


Psychologists have a header manual called DSM IV (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders IV), which lists all mental disorders and for having. In the same describes the symptoms, diagnosis and possible treatment is suggested. Only in the 1987 edition of the manual appeared the issue of sudden madness menstrual women, with the name of "premenstrual dysphoric disorder." And the operating head of all psychologists in the world says a woman suffering from this condition if you have five or more of the following symptoms: feeling sad, hopeless or self-deprecation, stress, anxiety or impatience to be extremely sensitive and mourn with easily, be irritable or angry, increased interpersonal conflicts, loss of interest in usual activities; rift in relations social, difficulty concentrating, feelings of fatigue, lethargy or lack of energy, marked changes in appetite, which sometimes can be accompanied by binge eating or a certain food cravings, sleep more than usual, or else, suffer insomnia, feeling be exceeded, "the limit", "not take it anymore" or out of control, and physical symptoms like breast tenderness or growth, headaches, bloating or weight gain, difficulty adjusting to clothing, shoes or rings. "
The manual says at least 75% of women experience premenstrual changes, 50% said they would you feel very different in days, and between 3% and 5% of women experience a lot of the symptoms described. Luckily the manual says that "there are very few systematic studies on the effect and stability of this disorder." Of course, this is an exclusively female condition, so why would someone take the trouble to study? However, the DSM-IV makes clear that the syndrome "should not be considered a mental disorder, and should only be treated therapeutically if the changes experienced by women interferes significantly with normal life"
Now, is it logical to consider something happens to most women is taken as a mental disease, for too much when there were formal and systematic studies on the syndrome? If we lose half a cup of blood per month, and it's natural that we look forward to replenish the lost calories with a sundae! What are you speaking anxiety?
course there are changes in premenstrual women. A friend who told him about it one day called me to ask: "Tell me one thing ... That disorder Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder ... or was it Disfonico? Because when I come, as they were hoarse cry ... ".
Many specialists were revealed to see if women really go worse before menstruation. Some doctors were responsible for asking many women keep a diary recounting their feelings every day for a month. It was discovered so many women feel grumpy and angry before the cycle, others feel that way during the cycle, and others later in the cycle. This would indicate that there is no such thing as premenstrual syndrome, but women disenchanted with their lives, they feel worse at different times. Coomo knowing about the world as women and society in which they live, but were upset is because they are too distracted. So all this premenstrual syndrome is the clinical name of the cultural malaise that feels any women in any patriarchal society is expected to be beautiful, skinny, meek and subdued. And if the first symptom is depression, well ... we have reason to be depressed!.
researcher Mary Brown Parlee made a thorough investigation by asking several women detailing their feelings and moods for 90 days, without explaining that it would be a study of menstruation. The results were striking: most of the women showed they felt much better before menstruation, which Parlee determined that - having a female disease .- should be called "euphoria premenstrual syndrome." But when I told women that had been the study, all swore that they felt worse before menstruation, although his personal notes say the opposite, is so convinced are we that we are a sick.
writer Emily Martin points out that the way in which women often detail the processes is always pejorative: menstruation is a failed pregnancy, where the rolls and lost the uterine wall, and menopause is the end of fertility, where lost reproductive capacity. However, while the stomach goes through a process similar to the uterus and nobody talks about falling apart and losing the mucus your stomach, but its walls are renewed, regenerate and produce more mucus , And the whole process is called "replacement of the lining of the stomach." But nobody talks about menstruation as the "replacement of the uterine wall, which is renewed, regenerated and produced endometrium, which is something that we always lose, like silver, key, glasses and the silhouette.
In a brochure of 1929 Kotex sanitary napkins kindly explain the process as "purification", providing a better category to menstruation, but suggesting that she is basically unclean. Tanta
pejorative connotation to the processes as menstruation and menopause female ... do not be adjacent the idea of \u200b\u200bloss, damage and failure precisely because they are things that only happen to women? To end all this would be better to have no uterus. We're headed for that: 40% of American women undergo hysterectomy, need it or not. And speaking of "remuneration hysterectomies, which are big business. Nancy Conger
The specialist says that PMS stems exclusively from a negative attitude toward the body and the menstrual cycle. "It's a moment that your sensitivity is higher, but it is in MABOS directions: positive and negative. If you notice your negative cycle, it captured only the negative. "
As was installed around the world the idea that PMS is experienced by 75-80% of women, if not all women felt the enfremas enough, it was decided that the Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder is experienced by 5-8% of women and causes them significant impairment or disability.
. Physicians clarify "how is reflected in each woman depends on genetic factors, neurobiological, and endocrine. But also is subject to cultural and historical variables. Hormonal cycles involve the whole body, so it is expected that a woman has changes in behavior, mood, weight, appetite, libido, energy level and body temperature different times of the cycle "
are synthesized in the ovary about 30 non-steroidal substances, such as growth factors, interleukins, catecholamines, stimulating and inhibitory peptides similar to hypothalamic substance P and vasopressin, among others.
She is a cocktail of hormones changing a roller coaster of estrogen and progesterone, which make his mood rises and falls in waves, which for physicians is the famous dysphoric disorder or emotional set of symptoms ... , behavioral and somatic presented at the end of the luteal phase and resolve with menstruation. " If it resolves with menstruation ... so called "Disorder"? To buy medicines, of course. They say that "a woman who develops the syndrome 20-25 years, can go from 1,500 to 3,000 days of suffering and disability until you reach menopause." They also claim that "the peak of symptom exacerbation occurs usually in the fourth decade of life "... Of course, agrees when one is more depressed for having served forty years!. Scientists like wirst
in 1975, showed that the free levels of tryptophan (an amino acid precursor of serotonin) fall with the onset of menstruation, and that the fall in levels of serotonin (the hormone of optimism and pleasure) is treated with antidepressants such as sertraline or fluoxetine. When I asked a woman gynecologist what to do to lower my level of premenstrual anxiety, gave me a prescription for Alplax, a sedative that left me bed and I was getting mas'ansiosa to see the grime around me and the clothes without ironing. But they say that the first source of tryptophan is the chocolate, banana and tomato, which also have lycopene, a natural antidepressant. So with cream of tomato soup and a bananasplit chocolate ice cream, washed down with delicious charlotte, we will raise our serotonin levels in much more natural and economic pharmacological antidepressants. Sprouts also have tryptophan, but do not know if you come before menstruation I can convince you to fill them with chocolate repollo.Del I do not care: all we jump headlong into it without knowing which is the major source of serotonin to your scope. So you know that all doctors want to mostarra is normal for women like a padeciemiento because it makes the business of pharmaceutical companies.
The truth is that although the days prior to menstruation us feel strange, these changes are more interesting than disabling. Just connect with ourselves, and listen to our cuerpo.Cuando says: "I want chocolate NOW "you just have to obey.

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alienate the day before I'm much more sensitive and sexually me feel more initiative. The next day I discover why.

Before I come, me and sometimes swollen breasts fans me several days earlier.

Suddenly I have a very bad mood and extreme sensitivity. Treat them with whiskey and chocolate.

Two or three days before I come see it all negative, but the interesting thing is that I struggle to figure out what is wrong.

With my boyfriend I noticed that the day before I come, I get melancholy and cry nonstop So we decided to check on the calendar that day I have to talk about serious issues or being forced to make important decisions. We call on the day of comedies and popcorn. rent things to make people laugh and I go to bed early, and this is just the problem. But I have a friend who tells me that I'm avoiding looking at the inside of my being, that if I cry is because he wants to tell me something I listen.

menstruating for me is an enriching experience. I noticed that when I come better bag score in games that require more visual and motor coordination, I feel life more intensely, I feel more determined and more confident and enjoy life. The bad thing is that I come very sleepy but not a high price considering what I am warning others.

I distressed by what is wrong without knowing why ... until I suddenly realize that I come. And I still passed without a period, ten years after menopause.

pains are true, I usually have a headache, the ovaries a little ... That is variable. What I always happens is that one or two days before I come, I have a severe pain at the waist. That is the clearest warning that I will come. And I have more hunger in the days before I come. but I get hyperkinetic, and also more energy expenditure.

for a month I asked my husband to get him back to his brother kayak latching the door. Ignored me. One day, tired of seeing it in the way, I loaded my arms, put it on the roof of my car, I tied on both bumpers, I drove my car with the kayak for a roof on the highway about 35 minutes and I left in the garden of my brother. If I try to do today I could not: he weighed 70 kilos. Neither my husband as I understood. The next day I came, and they understood everything.

When I came I did not even noticed, except for obvious presence in underwear, felt that I was coming to meet some greater sensitivity, or easy to get excited.

I get weepy and sensitive, sometimes give me some little pain in my belly and I swelled up a bit, but most noticeable is my sensitivity.

remember once a doctor told me that premenstrual depression was because the body felt sad for not having fathered a child. I believe it. As a child, to comfort me mom told me it was good to me down a lot and "all the crap out to the outside."

is to come When I know all my relatives. Moreover, if I could I would shout from the rooftops.

I have many symptoms: insomnia, headache, moodiness, depression, very sleepy. If someone can not stand, less tolerated in previous days.

always say that during the previous days, it's like blood circulation in the brain was slower, because I'm really slowed down on my reasoning, thoughts.
need to sleep a lot during the preview.

existential dilemmas I have before I come: why live what is the meaning of being, why is life so difficult, where youth is gone. After my mismay I laugh at my tribulations, I forget everything ... and the next month a new dilemma appears.

I grab a craving for meat and that meat which I do not like much, but in those days. And sometimes I grab terrible craving for Burger King. Give me the pleasure ground. Other days you make me sick hamburger. I can also get to get out industrial quantities of chocolate and its derivatives.


I never knew why menstruation is told "Being indisposed." For me it always meant to be more willing than ever. When I get your period, exploded: I become more primitive, less permissive and too outspoken. Everything had been bothering me throughout the month and silent, along with a pint of blood that is going. So I revolutionizes life in four days: the control horn to anyone who bothered me, tell the truth in the face. I say what I think, without inhibitions, like drunkards, and every man for himself.

I have no desire to eat anything but chocolate.

My husband usually realize that I'm going to alienate, said that changes my mood!
those days I also feel I could kill anyone who stands on my way. While

PMS suffer enough and it hurts terribly when I come, I need comes. Shock is super important to me. I feel like I purify and renew me. Then I feel reborn and rejuvenate .. Definitely would not take a pill. I know there is a pill that allows you only come once or twice a year. A student of mine who lives in USA because he hates making you come.

legs feel a little swollen ... I'm beginning to find some faults more than the people around me, my family does not seem as loving as ever, parejha you have at that moment do not know what I need ... (Actually I can not say what I need because I can not identify that is ...) I go to the office doubled in the wintertime leave your ass right near the stove, while beginning to create the darkest scenarios for the future ... That the black perspective things for one or two days ... and is relevant to any aspect ... (always with a Marroc or gingerbread in his hand ..) I feel terrible desire to go to the hairdresser, getting dressed to go out, play, to love, to plan future ... I feel capable of anything!

Once a month
tengouna uncontrollable urge to move out of my house full of carpets, monkeys and voladitos, a loft industrial, rational, glass and steel unfurnished and I hate voladitos. Despuies menstruation is me and I got used to my baroque house again. But I think that deep down that house simple, bright, without adornitos rceurdos the past and my dream is not realized, that my misses most authentic month after month.

Before I come I cry without shame and without fear because everyone arrives late for lunch and the food has already happened or cooled. And I tell them everything for all its faults of considerations for me the last month. . ... And again, this small process, which becomes little short not harmful ... Many times in those four days I have made decisions (obvious drastic decisions), rupture of couples of years, leaving of jobs, implementation of the partial final notes coming editing, among other things.

Her hair around her waist and I cut my male style. And my mother said "you did it because you come. I looked and saw the alamanque had razñon. And I do not arrenpentí! But had it not been that day, I would have encouraged.
I must say that most of the time my "walk tight" these days has caused drastic decisions in other ... leave it forever, not for ten days to answer the phone when I call, do not invite me to a meeting, leave me out of a project etc ... Like everything in life, you will learning, and during those four days do my best to find me at home stocked with enough butts tied, frozen food, etc., to avoid meeting someone who of course finished repenting have crossed ... Do not see a rate I say "You're in the typical feminine day ..." because I can get to kill him ... especially in these days, that I am capable of anything.

Think of the phrase 'this too shall pass' and put a bit of will. Of course, if you tell me what day I have also feminine instincts murderers.

recommend for those days a sort of hook ask. " Especially if one lives with another, we must ask you to be armed with patience and tolerance until you bust that week fatal.

Before I come I'm usually depressed, I realize that I see all bad, I bajoneo ... when I come by luck does not hurt anything, I never had cramps, obviously my feminine side, my uterus is somewhat comfortable in my body / mind / spirit. What I notice is that I have more of everything: more hunger, more sleep, and I am more eager for pampering, chocolates, conversation, recreation, relaxation ... I feel everything and nothing satisfied me! Maybe it's to compensate for hardships that I set myself the rest of the month?.

My symptoms started about ten days before my period starts. Lasts throughout the period and I go a week later, so I ruined more than half a month. I have eyes and hands and feet swollen, my legs hurt, so I have no clothes belly fits me, withhold fluids and increases about three kilos, I'm irritable, not reason well, I fought with everybody and make decisions appalling I become irrational, useless expense and no refund, I leave work, I cry for anything, I'm sensitive, I stare at the empty, it hurts head and I feel like I'm not where I am, I'm like ... in the air.

with menstruation I get too sensitive, I cry for anything and everything irritates me. And worst of all is that no attempt to avoid all that. On the contrary: I like to live those monthly symptoms that feel that I am vulnerable and more feminine than ever. And I think I took all the right to live my period as I have to live, feeling intensely every thing, you may find it annoying that my and others.
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first learns that he's my boss came to me, and I hope that I swell with nonsense.

I did not know of any premenstrual syndrome to los 26 años, desde entonces lo sufro.Me sube los niveles de sensibilidad e ira y me baja los de tolerancia y paciencia.Me angustio y por lo general, lagrimeo por pavadas.Aviso en casa, para que mi marido no crea que me cambiaron por otra, y para que me mime un poco más.

Me pongo más irritable y no entiendo cómo pude estar viviendo con ciertas concidicones que en esos dias me parecen insoportables. Me molesta odo lo roto, viejo, deslucido…¿ la vez pasada tirñe una batería entera de cocina porque no habñia una cacerola con asas enteras! Pero lo mejor es que siento que tengo pleno derecho a enojarme por cosas que NO FUNCIONAN, porque me enojo por cosas que en verdad están going wrong, from my relationship with my husband until the end of the stick.

Sometimes one or two days before I have uncontrollable desire for sex.
think that hormones alter your mind and why women change a bit during menstruation, the days before pregnancy or misogynist menopausia.Me seems a trait that men do not understand it. It should not even be discussed. Thus, a physicist who is not a choice for us, just something that we live and which should be understood as such.

I feel like I have to make a nest. Clean, organized, never run run furniture to remove dirt from every corner, as if I had to put my life in order and ensure that no debris. Then begin a steep decline, I feel bad, I see all black and I have thoughts tragic. If someone says something that is not friendly, I get to mourn and I can not stop. And all along I have wanted sweets.

As estrogen levels fall and rise testosterone for one or two days act more like a man and I get more expeditiously. Command everyone to hell, take sharp decisions and do not doubt anything that I decide .. I'm more aggressive, more angry and more powerful. And get everyone to respect me more. It's great to feel that way. Unfortunately, last long and then again I feel the sweet and quiet little woman always ... until next month, in which fortunately, menstruation makes me ... and power.

When I come I want to be alone, because I feel that everyone and everything annoyed me endlessly. I really love my husband on a trip in three days I am menstruating. I can not stand or speak to me. I feel I have much more tolerance for the chaos that usually surrounds my family after I go to when I next menstruation. when I see everything that is wrong and not anada smell. Suddenly I hate my house and move to another if I could.

Every time I come different. One day I have swollen and tender breasts, painful and annoying to me when I'm sleeping. The following month, my legs hurt and feel like I weigh lead. The next month does not hurt anything, but I'm impatient. And sometimes it also comes without pain, but all I want is sleep ... I come with a hungry horse. Usually does not taste sweet, but during the period I am able to look around the house to see where peude be something crunchy, caloric, and have chocolate. Does not always happen, but when it happens, if I find a packet of chocolate cup, eat it whole.

I know is coming because I feel a bit of a nebulsosa, like everything around me is not real, and most real is what I feel. I like that feeling, it's hard to explain but it is so. When I come, I do not care much what happens around me, I care about me.
Before I come I want to take everything off. Pay slips, pay debts, looking for things to sink, I make the calls that had to do, I buy what I had to buy, call the service and repair what I had to repair. Do not leave nothing left to live in peace menstruation. I wish I had the same energy the rest of the month, but it does not happen.

I use that extra emotional sensitivity as a unique opportunity to find solutions to things see later that much more confusing. I see everything with a different perspective. It's as if I were not me: it is an altered state of consciousness. I see everything from outside, perhaps most dramatically, but with much greater clarity, as if I huebiran drawn the blinders and think "What I did not realize before that this is so?". I think the rest of the month I'm half clouded, distracted by nonsense ... And when I get your period it's like you run veil and see the truth of everything.